The ceremony unity candle itself is usually done in the way everyone the same. Usually, the first step of the ceremony occurs at the beginning of the wedding. Traditionally, the mothers of the bride and groom each light a taper candle, one on each side of the central pillar candle. This means two separate lives of the bride and groom. However, in modern weddings, special and meaningful someone can participate in the role of lighting the taper candles. Grandparents, friends, mentors and even children from previous relationships can participate.The second step of the ceremony of unity are always handled by the bride and groom and usually occurs right after the vows and rings were exchanged. In many cases, the officiant of the wedding will explain the meaning of the unity candle lighting before the current one. After explaining the officiant, the bride and groom will take their taper candles and light the central pillar candle at a time.
After lighting the pillar candle, the couple may choose to shut down the taper candles to signify the loss of his old life and the marriage of their new life together, or the couple can continue to allow the flames burning candle as a symbol of Your families are united by the union as a marriage. Of course, couples can assign different meanings to this, and may have the officiant explain the significance of his decision to extinguish the candles, or allow them to continue burning.